How to Talk to Your Partner About an Unplanned Pregnancy?

December 15, 2024

Dealing with an unplanned pregnancy is difficult enough, but not knowing how others will react makes it even harder. How to share the news with your partner depends on your overall relationship. Learning about a pregnancy can either bring you closer or end everything.

You are not obligated to tell others about your pregnancy, but we believe honesty is always the best policy. Here are some ideas that may make breaking the news a little easier.

First, Have You Confirmed Your Pregnancy?

You might think a late period and a positive pregnancy test are all you need to confirm a pregnancy, but there may be more to learn. A pregnancy test only indicates a possible pregnancy. You need an ultrasound to confirm if the pregnancy is progressing, where it is located, and how far along you are.

Crystal Women’s Clinic provides free pregnancy services, including a lab-quality pregnancy test and limited obstetrical ultrasound, to get all the information you need about your pregnancy.

Telling Your Partner

One way to tell your partner the news is to invite him to your free Crystal Women’s Clinic appointment. If you wish, we can include him in our conversations, and if your pregnancy test is positive, he can join you for your ultrasound.

Do You Feel Safe?

If you feel unsafe talking to your partner, contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at (800) 799-SAFE (7233). You can also call the 24/7 MN Day One Hotline at (866) 223-1111 or text them at (612) 399-9995.

Follow these safety rules when you feel unsafe:

• Meet in a public place to talk.
• Take a trusted friend or family member with you.
• Make sure he has your full attention.
• Either show him your positive pregnancy test or invite him to your appointment.
• Do not let him dictate what action you should take.
• Let him know you are the one to make the final decision.

How Can We Help You?

Sometimes, it helps to have a neutral third party just to listen. We’re here for you. Talk with us first if you are worried about informing your partner about your pregnancy.

Schedule a free, confidential appointment with a caring team member. We can provide answers regarding your pregnancy and compassionate support to help you speak to your partner. You don’t have to face this alone and we are your best first step.